Menopause Symptoms

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 More than just Hot flushes

If you do a google search for ‘menopause symptoms’ you will probably be overwhelmed by how many results you get.

There are lots of them.

So before we dive into the complex world of these symptoms, there are a few things to say first:

  • Every woman is different. Not every woman gets every symptom, and some women have none at all
  • Your symptoms often change over time and you can wake up one day with a completely new one. They can come and go at random, at any time of day or night. Sometimes your symptoms can be mild and other times unbearable
  • There are no rules about how long a woman will have symptoms for. More than 10% of women still have symptoms after ten years
  • The symptoms can look the same as symptoms caused by lots of other things including medical conditions, unhealthy diet habits, the normal ageing process, stress, alcohol and also medication/supplement side effects. So before we start blaming our hormones, we have to rule these other things out first
  • You don’t have to have hot flushes to be perimenopausal or menopausal
  • Your periods can still be normal in the perimenopause

The reason for the huge variety of symptoms is because our bodies are packed from head to toe with receptors for the three major female sex hormones:

Perimenopause and Menopause Symptoms

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Hot flushes

Night sweats

Changes in periods


Headaches or Migraines



Breast tenderness

Body aches (muscles and joints)

Itchy or dry skin

Hair thinning

Feeling of ants crawling on the skin (formication)

Numbness or tingling in parts of the body


Dry or irritated eyes


Digestive problems

Brittle nails

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Mood swings

Memory and concentration problems


Anxiety and panic attacks

Feeling irritable or grumpy



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Decreased interest in sex

Pain during sex


Vaginal dryness/itch

Passing urine more frequently (including at night). Pain passing urine

Difficulty controlling your bladder

Recurrent UTIs

Hot Flushes and Night Sweats

Most people think of hot flushes (also called hot flashes) when they hear the word menopause.

Around 80% of women experience them.  Which means 20% of them don’t. They often start as a feeling of heat on the chest or neck and spread upwards towards the face and head, but they can affect anywhere on the body. Sometimes there is sweating and redness, but not always. They often come on suddenly and can last anywhere from seconds to hours. Some women can have upwards of 20 of them per day.

There can be an adrenaline rush before the flush – many women have feelings of palpitations, anxiety or light-headedness.

When they happen at night they are called Night Sweats and some women wake up several times, so drenched in sweat they have to change their bedding and often can no longer sleep with their partners.

For most women, hot flushes eventually stop. They last an average of around two years. But for some unfortunate women, they continue having them for decades.

Alcohol, hot drinks (especially caffeine), spicy foods, stress, tight fitting clothing and hot environments can all make hot flushes worse.

Noone is really sure what causes them, but it is thought to be due to the effects of estrogen on our internal thermostat (a place in our brain called the hypothalamus) which is where we regulate our body temperature. The lack of estrogen means we mis-interpret ourselves as being hot even if we are not.  

Changes in our Periods

In the perimenopause, the fluctuating hormone levels can often lead to changes in the timing, length and flow of your periods. This varies between women and can be a change that makes them lighter, heavier, more spaced out, closer together, longer or shorter in duration. Other women notice no change in their periods at all. For women who get heavier periods, this can sometimes be so severe that they become anaemic.

In menopause, your periods stop altogether. Once you have not had a period for one whole year, then we can call this menopause.


It’s very common to have disturbances in your sleep. This can be trouble falling asleep, waking up throughout the night or waking very early in the morning and not being able to return to sleep.

Sometimes women wake up because they are having night sweats or because they need to pass urine or because their mind is racing with anxious thoughts – other times there seems to be no reason at all.


This is probably one of the most common symptoms I see as a GP. Women are often exhausted – and there are lots of reasons for this. They may not be sleeping properly because of night sweats or bladder symptoms. They may be spending most of their days overwhelmed with anxiety and feelings of panic which drive up our cortisol and rip away our energy levels. Many women just feel like their ‘oomph’ has gone. They are running on empty and struggling to keep up with their busy lives.

Brain Fog

This is when women notice changes in their memory, mental focus and concentration. They often worry they are having an early dementia.

The hormonal changes of menopause can rob us of our multi-tasking superpower – we are no longer able to juggle all of life’s demands. We are left feeling overwhelmed and inadequate. Many women going through the menopause find they can no longer perform in their jobs and need to take increasing time off, reduce their hours or even resign.

Mood Changes

This is a hugely significant symptom for many women. Our hormones play a key role in regulating our mood and mindset. Fluctuating estrogen, progesterone and testosterone can lead to feelings of depression, anxiety, irritability and even anger. These mood changes can be sudden – so you can go from feeling fine one minute, to feeling hopeless, panicky or enraged the next. It can affect women who already have a past history of mental health problems, but also women who have never experienced depression or anxiety before.

The mood changes also may not respond to classical treatments for depression and anxiety. This is why some women who are already on anti-depressants or having therapy, often report that their usual treatments seem to ‘stop working’ in their midlife years.

Vaginal & Bladder Symptoms

Estrogen helps keep our vaginas and our bladders happy. It acts as a natural lubricant, so when levels fall, the tissues around our vagina become thin, dry and inflamed.  These changes can make things feel very uncomfortable down below. It can be the main reason why some women stop having sex with their partners. Our bladder and urethra (the tube that carries urine from your bladder to the outside) also depend on estrogen to function effectively. As levels fall, we therefore start to experience bladder problems such as pain when passing urine, passing urine more frequently/urgently or getting recurrent urine infections.

As a GP, I feel so sad when I ask a patient if they have any such symptoms and they finally reveal that they have been silently suffering with painful ‘bits’, often for many years. Women can be too embarrassed to tell anyone. Or they think there is nothing that can be done because it’s a normal part of ageing.

The truth is that something can be done. And it is simple, effective and safe. Estrogen cream is available, fully funded in a product called Ovestin. Women can apply it twice a week to their vagina for the rest of their lives to put back the estrogen that is missing. It is not linked to breast cancer or clots. There are many menopause specialists in the UK now arguing that it should be available for women over the counter without even needing a prescription.

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